The narcissistic parent appears to make a request, but it is really a demand. Another way of going Low Contact is to withdraw emotionally. You might physically see her as often, but just not share yourself as much. You realize she controls with the threat of withdrawal or rage. Narcissistic mothers are also masters of manipulation, and so they may well lay it on thick, trying to make you feel guilty if you don't accept. If you say no, set... 2) Guilt-tripping with Fear, Obligation, and Guilt (FOG). 5 Manipulation Tactics Narcissistic Parents Use To Control Their Adult Children 1) Emotional Blackmail. Narcissistic Mother + Children = Instability Children experience continued psychological whiplash being raised by a narcissistic mother. You need to be strong!