I think he was narcissistic due to extremely low self-esteem and pent up childhood trauma. Sometimes l think she’s living so long because deep-down, she’s mean and vile. So the golden child is my sibling. If you open it you will find a link to the site map.

Narcissistic Mother's Manipulation. Going to school would never be a problem or a nightmare for the golden child. S/he would be a little genius in mathematics, a genius in literature, and foreign languages. going anonymous because… the golden child has a lot of time on his hands and has found me on social media sites so can never be too sure where he is lurking. But, like the scapegoat, the golden child is merely a pawn in the narcissist family system, an extension of the narcissist with no real identity or personal boundaries of his own. And yes….sometimes l think she’ll do me in before she ever passes!!!
And no method to the madness except that for an N mom, the golden child is usually the male if there IS a boy. 8 thoughts on “Narcissistic Mother Chooses Golden Child Sister–Not You” S A F says: October 14, 2015 at 11:35 am If only there had been a Glinda in the life of a little girl struggling to make sense of her pain and loneliness. She is a covert narc, a pathological liar and a master manipulator. Her mother and two older brothers were scapegoated, while she alone was her father’s treasured golden child. The vast majority are just ‘golden’ … My mother is far more narcissistic. NPD mother has 2 actual blood children and 4 blood grand children and 1 great grand child, yet the un-related golden child and her 2 un-related children are treated like gold literally. - Gail. I guess you can tell I had far more empathy for my dad! The narcissistic parent has already waged a lifelong campaign to make sure siblings will not be close. Another child, usually the one most closely resembling the narcissistic parent or the one who best serves the parent’s need for narcissistic supply, may become the Golden Child–in other words, the parent’s favorite. If you go down the list of folders/albums, you will see one on The Death of a Narcissistic Mother that might be validating and helpful to you. As Primary Objects, the narcissist's parents are often a source of frustration which leads to repressed or to self-directed aggression. In today’s article, I am going to discuss the toxic dynamic between a highly malignant narcissistic ‘golden child,’ and the ‘scapegoated child’. THE IMPACT OF A NARCISSISTIC MOTHER ON HER SONS . Watch the video on Dead Parents of the Narcissist; Question: How do narcissists react to the death of their parents?. Assuming you are asking what happens to the “golden child” when they become adults, here is one answer. Whats gets me is the goldren child happily takes it all without refusal or … She is now 86 years old.